My meanest break up was with this poor guy named Steve. I had dated him off and on for two years and boy did he love me. I never really loved him...due to the fact that in my younger years I had huge issues with commitment & pet peeves and I would find things that would annoy me and focus on them so much that I would become disgusted with the person (sad I know, but I couldn't help it). I would get annoyed/tired of him after a few months and never have the balls to just break it off so I would do the whole stop talking and ignore thing until he got the clue and eventually moved on. Now that's not the bad break up part...as time passed after we "broke up" I would hear that he was starting to date someone else and for some reason I didn't want him to be with anyone else either. So me being the mean person I WAS (apparently) I would make my way around to his part of town and the places he hung out at and I would start acting like I was interested in him again (which I honestly believed at the time) and he would break up with whoever he was with just to be with me again...I did that to him twice with two really nice girls and I feel terrible because one of those girls could of been his potential wife. To this day I want to call and apologize for wasting his time and stringing him along because it wasn't cool. I was malicious and I regret it. Now that I've matured and am married I realize love is definitely not something you play with or take lightly... I guess you live and you learn and you work hard to not make the same mistakes twice! For the record though...Steve, if your out there I am so sorry and I hope you've found the love you've always deserved and then some!
♥ RandomLeenie
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The meanest breakup- UM how about my boyfriend was dating around in college while I was away in the military and then calls me after I am stationed across seas like if we were still together....UM NOT
ReplyDeleteMy ex-girlfrined broke up with me over the phone in the middle of my deployment, while in Iraq. I at the time was a Section Leader with 26 Marines in my command. I was always there for them,each of them everyday no matter what.
ReplyDeleteThe only person that I felt I could find some comfort in the craziness of it all...left me.I have forgiven her. "God must take away in order for you to receive." Thank you Lord, for my Wife Charlene Marie Garcia!